MISSING YOU THESE DAYS

Dear Someone,

I doubt one can access blogger there due to governmental actions and reactions. We are enjoying such tech savvy days here in Nepal, the country with slow economic growth rate. I'm not sure YOU would be able to find my blog anyway -- seeing how I bookmarked it on your computer when you were here and you couldn't find it. Or maybe you did and just never told me.

Even so... I wanted to tell you that mom found a letter you wrote me just after I told you I was going to marry a girl. I already had the one you typed... this one was the rough draft. It's in your handwriting so it is even more meaningful to me. I'm glad mom found it in one of your notebooks. You know, the one with the blue tape.

I've told you this so many times, but I love you. You were such a great friend and I was always so proud that you were my inspiration to succeed in life. There is a lot going on in my life right now. Big decisions. A storm that hit our neighborhood. I'm working really long hours and am tired a lot. Day and night shift jobs. I can't get more than four hours to sleep. I have a lot on my mind. And this would have been one of those days I would have picked up the phone and called you. I would have asked you about my roof. About leadership. About dealing with insurance people. I would have told you about the stuff going on. And you would have told me to not to let work consume me. You would have told me that you were proud of me. I know what you would have said, but I would love to hear you say it. This is shared to many friends-I know feedback from some people. Actually I am very much thankful to you. You trust me as a good friend!

Today I just really feel raw. And empty. I'm just tired. I'm sure I'll feel better in a couple of hours. But in this moment, I just miss you a lot.

Love you.

MISSING YOU THESE DAYS

LOVE

Each Day I am Holding a Hope to

Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?

Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing

But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You

Just See Once You will Realize Then,

How Much I do Love You?

Each Day I am Holding a Hope to

Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?

Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing

But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You

Just See Once You will Realize Then,

How Much I do Love You?

(photo: yahoo.com)

LOVE

WHEN TO MARRY?

Hornell Hart wrote an article which was published on October 1927. It is quite interesting these days too. He suggested about marriage with the help of a chart. (How You Can Predict Your Chances for Happiness by New Scientific Method)

A YOUNG friend of mine, a strapping lad of nineteen, was graduated from high school last June with the intention of entering an Eastern university this autumn. Employed in a seaside hotel during the summer, he met a charming girl of eighteen. They fell madly in love. Now they are to he married. Both are going to work to “support the family. It will be great fun,” they say. And they are confident their marriage will he one of endless happiness. Will it? A wealthy bachelor I know, a business executive approaching the half century mark, was introduced to a vivacious woman athlete exactly half his age at a dance not long ago. They became infatuated. He fully believes that at last he has met his ideal mate. So does she. Will their marriage be a blissful one?

WHEN TO MARRY?

घमण्डी भन्नेहरूलाई

अचेल कसैकसैले मलाई घमण्डी भन्ने गरेका मैले थाहा पाएँ । कतिपयले यो कुरा स्पष्ट नै भने पनि । तर तिनले यस्तो धारणा बनाउनुको स्पष्ट आधार दिन सकेनन् र यत्तिकै थाहा भयो नि भने । कसैलाई यत्तिकै घमण्डी बनाइदिनेहरू अहङ्कारी हुन् कि होइनन् त । कसैले भने, यति पैसा कमाउँछस्, भोज ख्वाउनुपर्दैन तैँले ?  म छक्क परेको छु, पैसा कमाउने परिमाणको मापदण्ड के हो । कति र के कमाए धेरै हुने हो । मासिक दस हजार कमाउनेले धेरै कमाए कि लाख कमाउनेले । त्यसैगरी साथी, मित्र पनि कति भए धेरै हुन्छन् ।

दिउँसो काम गर्ने अनि राति पनि काममा व्यस्त । दिउँसो झ्यापझ्याप (निद्राले) भइरहने हुँदा म कसैसँग कुरा गर्न जान सक्दिनँ । फुर्सद भयो कि किताब बोक्यो अनि लाग्यो एकातिर । यस्तो बेलामा ककसलाई भेट्न जानु खै । कसैले भेटेन, आएन भन्छन् र त्यो त साह्रै घमण्डी पो भयो भन्छन् भने भनून । बुझ्नेलाई पो बुझाउन सकिन्छ, अबुझहरूलाई केही गरे पनि बुझाउन सकिन्न ।

घमण्डी भन्नेहरूलाई

A to Z of Friend

A Friend in need is a friend indeed!...

A ccepts you as you are.
B elieves in you.
C alls you just to say "hi."
D oesn't give up on you.
E nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts).
F orgives your mistakes.
G ives unconditionally.
H elps you.
I nspires you.
J ust likes being with you.
K eeps you close at heart.
L oves you for who you are.
M akes a difference in your life.
N ever judges you.
O ffers support.
P icks you up.
Q uiets your fears.
R aises your spirits.
S ays nice things about you.
T ells you the truth when you need to hear it.
U nderstands you.
V alues you.
W alks beside you.
X -plains things you don't understand.
Y ells when you won't listen.
Z aps you back to reality

Developing yourself to be good friend, one who is friendly and approachable is both a science and and an art. Advances in Behavioural sciences helps you B R E A K F R E E from relationship challenges. You need to look at changing attitudes and reaching effectiveness for a quick start and grow further. Your time is now!

A to Z of Friend

Please Your Girlfriend

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Whispers to each other.
3. Cook for each other.
4. Walk in the rain.
5. Hold hands.
6. Buy small gifts for each other.
7. Gift Roses.
8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear every time you're together.
9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
10. Write poetry for each other.
11. Hugs are the universal medicine.
12. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!
15. Spend every second possible together.
16. Look into each other's eyes.
17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
18. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
20. Buy her a ring.
21. Sing to each other.
22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two-deal
24. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
25. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
26. Dance together.
27. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
28. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have
to look in a mirror to read it.
29. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
30. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
31. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
32. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
34. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
35. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
36. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
37. Hang out with his/her friends.
38. Go to church/pray/ worship together.
39. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
40. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
41. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
42. Make sacrifices for each other.
43. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
44. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
45. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
46. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
47. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
48. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
49. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
50. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say,"Sweet dreams."

Please Your Girlfriend

Girl's Feelings

1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.
2. When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it's best to give her some time to cool down before touching her heart with an apology.
3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get over him' after the relationship's over.)
4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.
5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not sure how to react to them.
7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare ok?
8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.
9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend, talk to her.
10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).
11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.
12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.
14. A smile means a lot to a girl.
15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.
16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because she has to study, leave.
17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.
18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.....
19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.
20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder why she never noticed him before.
21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read romance stories.
22. When class pictures come out, a girl would first check who is standing next to her crush before actually looking at herself.
23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory, but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.
24. Girls love having fun!
25..... A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.
26. A girl's best friends usually know best what she is feeling and going through.
27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.
28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.
29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.
30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.

Girl's Feelings

Love Signs

 SIXTEEN:
When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.
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FIFTEEN:
You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.
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FOURTEEN:
You walk really slow when you're with them.
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THIRTEEN:
You feel shy whenever they're around.
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ELEVEN:
When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.
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TEN:
You smile when you hear their voice.
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NINE:
When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.
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EIGHT:
You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.
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SEVEN:
They're all you think about.
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SIX:
You get high just from their scent.
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FIVE:
You relize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.
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FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.
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THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.
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TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing
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ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.

Love Signs

Holding Hands

I was sitting on a beach one summer day, watching two children, a boy and a girl, playing in the sand.

They were hard at work building an elaborate sandcastle by the water's edge with gates and towers and moats and internal passages. Just when they had nearly finished their project, a big wave came along and knocked it down, reducing it to a heap of wet sand.
I expected the children to burst into tears, devastated by what had happened to all their hard work. But they surprised me. Instead, they ran up the shore away from the water, laughing and holding hands, and sat down to build another castle.

I realized that they had taught me an important lesson. All the things in our lives, all the complicated structures we spend so much time and energy creating, are built on sand.

Only our relationships to other people endure. Sooner or later, the wave will come along and knock down what we have worked so hard to build up.

When that happens, only the person who has somebody's hand to hold will be able to laugh.

Holding Hands

Mother

Mother's love is deeper than ocean,

Mother's lesson is bigger than the sky,

Mother's sacrifice is greater than God,

Mother's lap is more comfortable than the warm bed,

Mother's tale is better than the best novel on this earth,

Mother's picture is more beautiful than a fascinating scenery,

Mother's blessings are more powerful than the thousands of seas,

 

Mother's shade is cooler than the shade of heavy laden trees,

Mother's light is brighter than the sun,

Mother's role is seventy times greater than the father,

Mother's place is more sacred than any shrine,

Mother's care higher than the heaven.

Mother

How to check if a man is still virgin

A very straight and honest girl is going to Kuala Lumpur before she left, her mother gave her some advice.

"Daughter, when you're in KL and if you're looking for a match there, you must take note of the following requirements Mother set for you. You must find a man that is 'faithful', not 'spendthrift' and must be a 'virgin'."

With this advise from her mother, the girl went to Town. After some months later, she came home to her mother's blessings to marry.

"Mother, I've met my match following your instructions. My future husband is faithful because when we went out for a holiday one day, he took care of me specifically even though there were so many prettier girls around. Isn't that being faithful?".

Her mother nodded in agreement.

"Then, since the day was getting late in the night and rain was pouring, my boyfriend decided that we stay the night at a hotel. He also suggested that in order not to spend too much, we shared one room only. Isn't he not spendthrift guy?"
For the second time her mother nodded her head in agreement, but with a little concern.
"And finally mum, I know he is a virgin".
"How did you know he is still a virgin?" The mother asked with with her open wide eyes.

"Mmm.... his "that one" is new... still wrapped up in plastic, mum!"

How to check if a man is still virgin

पर्खेकी तिमीलाई

पर्खेकी तिमीलाई हेर्छु निहुरेर

कहिल्यै आउँछ्यौ सम्झेर

पर्खेकी तिमीलाई

Be Thankful

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.

If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something,

For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times,

During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations,

Because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge,

Because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes,

They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary,

Because it means you've made a difference.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to those

Who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,

And they can become your blessings.

Be Thankful

Love

Regret flows from the depths of my soul

With the strength of a flood

I have held these gates shut for too long

And though tormenting, they should not be stopped.

The thought of your anguish

Even as I write to you now

Stops my heart cold

As well it should

What I see in front of me

Is a painting of our love

Its most thoughtful brushstrokes

Mottled by hurried abstraction and inattention

A person who had not seen this masterpiece created

Might think it to be refuse and pass it by unknowingly

Letting be obscured the deep beauty of its many scenes

By layers of the tarnish of mistreatment

But as the painter

I see beyond the dark smears

To recall the hours that I attended to the details

And wonder how I could let it become so discolored

The painting that took me my life to create

Has lost its divinity in my careless treatment

And even if I were to refine it

I fear you would always see it as it is today

So today I paint a new masterpiece

One inspired by the muse of respect

A work that you can love through our old age

One that you will look to each day for inspiration

This one will take some time

As I want my brushstrokes to be carefully placed

I need to move steadily to ensure that this time,

My art represents my dream

This is my opus

Don't judge me on my past works

As I have never before had so much skill and inspiration

And never before have I wanted to please you as I do today

With you and my children as my muse

I will paint for you a lifetime

A portrait of devotion and friendship

A panorama of passion and admiration

All I ask is that you gaze upon it with an open heart

And you shall unquestionably love me again

Love

Love and Marriage

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back o pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."
*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."

Love and Marriage

Friendship

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....


you have to think before you speak to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

my presence ever makes you feel uncomfortable!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to thank me for everything i do for you!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to say sorry for everything that you don't do!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to ask me for favors!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think i would not be curious to know your new philosophy of life!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you go by what i say and do not understand what i don't say!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think that listening to your dreams would put me to sleep!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think that seeing you in pain, would not bring a tear to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think I do not remember the first time we met!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you don't see the thousand ways I try to make you happy!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you don't realise how your smile brightens up my day!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you would rather keep quiet when you really wanna talk!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you hesitate to ask me to stay back when you think we should be together!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you take too much time to tell me what i mean to you!

Friendship

Friendship

Friends..... ...
They love you,
but they are not your lover
They care for you,
but they are not from your family
They are ready to share your pain,
but they are not in your blood relation.
They are........FRIENDS! !!!!
True friend...... ..
Scolds like a DAD..
Cares like a MOM..
Teases like a SISTER..
Irritates like a BROTHER..
And finally loves U more than a LOVER.
Send 2 all ur good friends even me if I am 1 of them.
C how many u get back....
Hold a True Friend and Don't Let Go !!!

Friendship

Long Live Bachelors!

A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly
parted mother and started back toward his car when his attention was
diverted to another man kneeling at a grave. The man seemed to be
praying with profound intensity and kept repeating, 'Why did u have to
die? Why did you have to die?" The first man approached him and said, "Sir,
I don't wish to interfere with your private grief, but this
demonstration of pain in is
more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you mourn so? Deeply? A
child? A parent?"The mourner took a moment to collect himself, then
replied "My wife's first husband."

Long Live Bachelors!

Friendship

I learned that God sends friends when
we need them the most and every friend
has a special purpose in our lives.

I learned that we often find
new friends in unexpected places.

I learned that despite the distance
between us, a real friendship grows
across the miles.

I learned that though we sometimes
expect someone to kick us down,
a true friend helps us stand back up.

I learned that we should not wait to
express our appreciation for our friends--
if we do, it will be too late.

I learned that we should be open to a
friend's view as two people can look at the
same thing and see something different.

I learned that we should not judge
our friends but respect their
way of life even if we disagree with it.

I learned that we should not only
take the time to talk to our friends,
but we should also listen and try
to understand.
If we can't understand,
we should accept.

I learned that our friends should
always take something good away with
them each time they cross our path.

I learned that friends sometimes
hurt us unintentionally, but we
should forget and forgive.

I learned that friends change
over time and that such change should
be welcomed as it's necessary for growth.

I learned that friends sometimes need
time and space, and we should
be thoughtful and understanding
of their needs.

I learned that you should treat a friend
kindly today, for the people we love the most
are often taken away from us too soon.

I learned that friendship is a candle
that lights our way, and though
it flickers against the
winds of time, distance, and change,
its beauty endures
and shines forever in our hearts.

Friendship

Meaning of Love

Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the

Meaning Of love. But even the great philosophers, with their

Profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In

A survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But

What do little Kids know about love? Read on and be surprised

That despite Their young and innocent minds, kids already

Have a simple But deep grasp of That four-letter word.

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets

In the way."

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over

And paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for

Her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too.

That's love."

"When someone loves you, the way she says your name is

Different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but

You don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his

Feelings."

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she

Takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired

Of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.

My mommy and daddy are like that. They look gross when

They kiss but they look happy and sometimes they dance in

The kitchen while kissing."

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop

Opening presents and listen."

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a

Friend who you hate."

"Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no."

"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and

You're scared she won't love you anymore. But then you get

Surprised Because not only does she still love you, she loves

You even more."

"There are 2 kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes

Both kinds of them."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are

Still friends even after they've know each other so well."

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked

At all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving

And smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."

"Love is-if you hold hands and sit beside each other in the

Cafeteria. That means you're in love. Otherwise, you can sit

Across from each other and be okay."

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone

Else kissing me to sleep at night."

"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."

"Don't feel so bad if you don't have a boyfriend. There's lots of

Stuff you can do without one."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still

Says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."

"If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself. Some

People try to act like somebody else, somebody the boy likes better.

I think the boy isn't being very good if he does this to you and you Should just find a nicer boy."

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him

Alone all day"

"When you're born and see your mommy for the first time.

"Love is what makes people hide in the dark corners of movie theaters."

"Love goes on even when you stop breathing and you pick up

Where you left off when you reach heaven."

"My enemies taught me how to love."

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her

Old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But

If you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."

"You have to fall in love before you get married. Then when

You're married, you just sit around and read books together."

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only

Picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister

Because I love her."

"Love cards like Valentine's cards say stuff on them that we'd like

To say ourselves, but we wouldn't be caught dead saying."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and

Little stars come out of you."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't

Think it's gross."

"You never have to be lonely. There's always somebody to love,

Even If it's just a squirrel or a kitten."

"You can break love, but it won't die."

Meaning of Love